The Rosary, a Lifeline

by Kathleen Glavich, SND on October 7, 2015

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MaryOctober is known as the month of the rosary, no doubt because October 7 is the feast of the Holy Rosary. The feast originated with the Battle of Lepanto when, against all odds, Christians overcame the Muslim forces attacking Europe—accredited to Christians praying the rosary. (Hmm. What would happen if all Catholics prayed the rosary to vanquish ISIS?) The rosary is associated with Catholics as much as the Mass is. It hangs in our cars, and our hands hold it in the coffin. Martin Luther, a former Catholic, did away with many Catholic things, but not the rosary. He prayed it every day until he died. The composer Hadyn prayed it whenever he got composer’s block. It was Pope St. John Paul II’s favorite prayer. After 9/11, he encouraged praying it for peace. When the Blessed Virgin Mary appeared in Fatima, Portugal, she, too, advised us to pray the rosary for peace. To those who think that after the reforms of Vatican II, the rosary is something to be thrown out the window, think again!

The rosary is a highly scriptural prayer. We pray two ways during the rosary: We say the traditional formula prayers (Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory Be), but at the same time we ponder the mysteries of Jesus, one mystery per decade (set of ten beads). I tell children that this takes practice, like mastering patting your head and rubbing your stomach at the same time. The repetitions of the Hail Marys is like soothing background music to our thoughts. (So soothing that the rosary can function as a remedy for sleepless nights.)

The rosary is known as a Marian prayer because we primarily honor our Blessed Mother by praying fifty-three Hail Marys. The rosary has been compared to a garland of roses we present to her. I also ask the children how they feel when someone says something nice about their mother. Then I comment that likewise Jesus is pleased when we praise his mother. We Sisters of Notre Dame (Our Lady) pray the rosary every day.

Rosaries can be beautiful crystal ones or homemade ones. There are also single decade rosaries. I have one of these made from crushed rose petals. Some people pray on ten-beaded bracelets or rings. Lacking any of these, we can always pray on our hands, which conveniently have ten fingers! The largest rosary is at a shrine in Windsor, Ohio. It is made of foot-high lamps near the tallest statue of Our Lady of Guadalupe, which is 50-feet high.

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Our Lady of Guadalupe in Windsor, Ohio

On the Internet are sites that explain how to pray the rosary, list the mysteries, and even allow us to pray along. The site at www.Comepraytherosary.org is one that enables us to praying the rosary individually or with others.

Variations: You can make up your own mysteries, such as the miracle mysteries or the parable mysteries. You can also stay mindful of the mystery by inserting in the Hail Marys words that refer to it. For example, for the Annunciation you might pray, “Hail Mary, full of grace, to whom the Angel Gabriel came, the Lord . . .”

By the way, the rosary developed over the years. The legend that Mary personally handed one to St. Dominic began because the Dominicans were chief promoters of the rosary.

What rosary has special meaning for you? When has praying the rosary been a comfort or joy for you?

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Mary Day October 7, 2015 at 12:27 pm

Sister Kathleen,

This morning at Mass, the celebrant, Fr. John Crawford, (who I believe once taught at Notre Dame College), mentioned the significance of the Battle of Lepanto. How wonderful it was to open your message later on and read about your explanation. The Rosary is such a comforting prayer and sacramental. I held onto it during the losses of my dear loved ones, and find it a prayer of consolation and hope. May we turn to Our Lady for her intercession for our concerns and to pray it for world peace. Our Lady of the Rosary, pray for us.

Thank you and many blessings to you.

Mary Day

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Kathleen Glavich, SND October 7, 2015 at 2:46 pm

Yes, I was a student of Fr. Crawford. Thank you for affirming the value of the rosary, Mary. (I like your name!)

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Kathy OFS October 7, 2015 at 3:55 pm

I treasure my grandmother’s rosary it is well worn not sure whether it is pearl or what it is made of. I also have a big black one that came inside of the blessed mother statue I treasure. My mom was never without one. She prayed it daily in her rocking chair in the morning. As for myself I have a stumbling block that has been hard to break despite all the rosaries I have. The Franciscan crown is one that adds two more decades. We pray this at our fraternity meetings from time to time. I have Irish finger one and Irish one with Celtic cross. Plastic ones. My crown was is made of tears of job . One made of rose petals. If only there was a way to learn how to get over my stumbling block then I might pray it.

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Kathleen Glavich, SND October 7, 2015 at 4:31 pm

By “stumbling block,” do you mean there’s something about the rosary that keeps you from praying it, Kathy?

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Kerri October 9, 2015 at 1:57 pm

Despite growing up as a Catholic, I only remembering praying the rosary once or twice as a child, and that was as part of my CCD classes. Other than that I really didn’t know much about it until I came back to the Church as a young adult. I’m much older now and have gained an appreciation for the rosary very, very, very slowly over the years. My husband and I would pray it together during our pre-marriage life, but haven’t kept it up in the years we’ve been married. Recently I decided to do a 54 day rosary novena. That was a big undertaking!! I have about 11 days left and I think I may keep praying the rosary daily even when I finish the novena. I especially like the scriptural rosary. It’s longer so I don’t do it every time, but I like having passages from scripture to reflect on with each Hail Mary. Oh, and you asked at the very beginning of this post what would happen if all Catholics prayed the Rosary for the end of ISIS. I thought about that myself and have added a petition to the Prayer before the Rosary to include the conversion of ISIS. I encourage others to do this as well. Pray for the conversion of hearts of the Islamic State. Thank you for this great reflection!

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Kathleen Glavich, SND October 9, 2015 at 2:55 pm

Thank you, Kerri, for the overview of your changing relationship with the rosary. I bet that after 54 days of praying it, you will find that you have made it a habit!

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